Intro to Short Guy Game

A lot of students ask me, how do you get laid when you’re so short?

To be honest, it never even occurred to me to be a problem. I knew from an early age that people responded more to personality than to looks. Don’t get me wrong, looks are important. Height is an attraction trigger. The fact that escapes many short guys, the essential fact, is that lack of height is not a rejection trigger. Shortness in and of itself is neutral.

I remember going to a play here in Hollywood one night. The play was totally awesome, and crazy, and starred a guy that went on to become a TV star, but that’s beside the point. As the nonchalant crowd filed lackadaisically in, my (actress) girlfriend at the time pointed out a hip tiny figure in a hip tiny suit and hip tiny shoes. This guy was truly miniscule – like under three feet. Before I recognized him, I recognized the assured walk of his female cohort, a 5’10” gorgeous redhead in a tight red dress with serious curves. As he walked from behind the (what must have been enormous to him) rows of seats, I saw it was a famous actor. The guy who gets all the parts for little people in big commercial flicks.

Okay, I know this guy is rich and successful. However, he was also UNDER THREE FEET TALL. And his girl looked very proud to be with him.

Most actors are short. A tall actor like Vince Vaughan has to walk in trenches so that his co-star’s head and his can both be seen in a shot. Directors like to avoid problems like that. Shortness doesn’t affect their game, so why should it affect yours? I find I can get away with more cockiness being short. I can be louder and more crazy and more ballsy and more sexual than tall guys. Why? Because girls don’t expect it. Unexpected = confusion = attraction.

I’m really looking forward to writing this blog. I’ll be talking about Short Guy Game of course, but I’ll also talk about general subjects in picking up women and having a great dating lifestyle. Also, I’ll talk a bit about coaching alongside the pickup instructor Brad P for the last three years. Questions and comments are welcome. I want to spread some of the knowledge and positivity that helped me achieve my dating goals.


6 Responses to “Intro to Short Guy Game”

  1. 1 K March 29, 2010 at 5:52 pm

    Interesting take on things. I’m 5’7″ and never considered myself ‘short’ unless in the context of playing HS football or basketball. However the comparison of men who are taller and have more muscle and how they experience and move through the world is insightful – especially in how it pertains to personal space. Thanks for sharing your knowledge, looking forward to more posts!

  2. 2 Petronius March 31, 2010 at 7:10 pm

    Thanks for providing us shorties with inspiration, we are, uhm, looking up to you! 🙂

  3. 3 Matt Savage April 2, 2010 at 1:50 am

    Hey man, I look forward to reading your blog, it sounds like you’ll have some interesting stuff from a unique perspective. I’ve always felt like there should be someone who focused mostly on short guy seduction. I’m 5’4 myself and probably could talk about this subject more on my own blog, but still haven’t exactly gotten consistent results yet, but none the less continue to improve.

  4. 4 Zanther April 19, 2010 at 5:56 am

    Look forward to reading about your adventures

  5. 5 snogroove June 6, 2010 at 1:05 pm

    I like your analysis and focus on the positive aspects of being short. I’m mid-forties, and I see being a lot older than the early-mid 20’s girls I like as an obstacle, do you have ideas how to reframe that to myself? I am a psychologist, so I have an “excuse” (I mean I have accomplished something) but that often intimidates people when I tell them.


    • 6 laphil June 29, 2010 at 3:16 am

      Hey snogroove. Having accomplished something is not important when making a first impression. Reframe your maturity as a positive. Young women love to be submissive to a wiser, more experienced man that can teach her things. Don’t bother telling a girl about what you do for a living or your accomplishments in general until she is really curious and you are genuinely building a connection with her. In the beginning, focus on flirting, not credentials. Telling people what you do before they are interested can come off insecure.

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